The Celebration Service
Monday, May 7, 2001
6:30 PM
Papago Park
Phoenix, Arizona

The Order of Service

Prelude:
   Keyboard Selections played by Ken Reeves
Welcome and Opening Prayer:
   Pastor Paul Sorenson
Song #1:
   Amazing Grace by Cecilia
   From: Voice of the Feminine Spirit
Reflections on Noel's Life & God's Love:
   Pastor Paul Sorenson
A Father's Message:
  
John Schuderer
A Mother's Letter:
   Marna Chvarak
   [Not Shared Publicly at Service]
Song #2:
   Tears In Heaven by Eric Clapton
   From: Eric Clapton Unplugged
Reading #1:
  
Barbara Schuderer (Stepmother)
   Excerpt from A Return to Love: Reflections
   on the Principles of A Course in Miracles
by
 
  
Marianne Williamson
Song #3:
   A Place in the World by
   Mary Chapin Carpenter
   From: A Place in the World
Reading #2:
  
Ryan Schuderer (Brother)
   On Joy and Sorrow
  
From: The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran
Song #4:
   Bourée by Johan Sebastian Bach
   Performed by Jethro Tull
   From: Standup
Email and a Love Poem:
   Heather Burns (Partner)
Song #5:
   Dante's Prayer by Loreena McKennitt
   From: The Book of Secrets
Open Sharing:
   by Family and Friends
Closing Comments and Prayer:
   Pastor Paul Sorenson
Postlude/Song #6:
  
Standing in Motion by Yanni
   From: In Celebration of Life
Reception
Spreading of Ashes

Closing Comments and Prayer
by Pastor Paul Sorenson,
Community Church of Joy

So many wonderful thing have been said.  I don't want to try to add to it that much except just to summarize what I heard in the beautiful words.  It's become very clear to me that Noel loved life and he gave that life away.  So many loves in his life... he loved the outdoors, and what a perfect spot here tonight to celebrate his life!  He would have loved this place.  He loved creation.  He loved adventure.  We heard all about that, how he gave his heart and soul into competition.  Someone said Noel's guardian angels had to work overtime to keep him safe.  He was an avid hiker, rock climber, bicyclist, runner, swimmer, diver; whether he was falling off the roof of his childhood home or sprinting across the Mojave Desert, he loved adventure and how appropriate that his last adventure was an around-the-world tour.  More than that, he loved people.  He loved you.  He touched people wherever he went.  He left a trail of lifelong friends.  Whether he was teaching English to local children in Taiwan, serving with the River of Dreams, working in a nursing home, group home, or school; he always loved people.  He always stayed true to his word because he loved people, he wanted to honor them.  His craft of humor was part of that desire to express love.  Of all those people he loved, most of all he loved his family.  Mom and dad, brothers and family, our hearts especially go out to you tonight.  I'd just like to share with you who the family survivors are:

[To read list of family survivors, click here]

Yes, there are many loves in Noel's life, many loves that he demonstrated, God's love.  There's one love in his life that is greater than his love for adventure, greater than his love for people, his family... that is God's love for Noel.  I'd like to paraphrase my favorite verse in the Bible...

For God so love Noel, that He gave His only son that Noel, who believed in Him, might not perish but have everlasting life.  For God did not send His son to condemn Noel, but that Noel might have life through Him.

That love of God's is so incredible, so gracious!  Now Noel can celebrate where there is no more pain, no more tears, no more sorrow... just total, absolute joy!  I would bank my life that if Noel could stand before us today that that is the greatest gift he would want for each of us... to put our trust in this God who loves us because now, being on the other side, Noel knows what life is truly all about.  And so I invite you tonight to let God be your friend, let God come and wrap his arms around you and be with you tonight in your sorrow and in your joy.  Let's pray...

Loving Lord, we thank you tonight for the life and love that you gave Noel here on this earth.  And we thank you for the life and the love that he so generously passed on to each of us here.  And we thank you for the life he now celebrates with you forever.  And so Lord, in walking in his footsteps, we see his fingerprints and footprints of love are all over us and all over this world.  We ask that you would help us.  We put our trust in You tonight as the One who made this beautiful world for Noel and now has made a place, a wonderful home, in heaven.  We put our trust in You so that we might also experience that life and that joy and someday see Noel face to face.  Thank you Lord!  Amen.

Pastor Paul then offered a minute of silence to be used by each individual to pray, meditate, give thanks, etc.

As you leave this area, there are a couple of people who will hand you a packet of wildflower seeds.  

The family has requested that you take a packet and spread the seeds where they might grow and give joy to others in memory of Noel.

And now as you go, may our loving Lord go with you.  May He go before you to show you the way, behind you to encourage you, beside you to be your friend, above you to watch over and care for you, and may He be in your heart filling you with His peace, His power, His perseverance and His joy.  In the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.  Amen.


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